Khari is only a toddler and doesn't have alot of hair, but you have to start young to try and figure out what works for you.
Wash- I don't have a SET schedule for washing Khari's hair. I probably wash it every other week. Right now I use Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Shampoo on all of our hair. On the kids hair I usually just wash the scalp and let the shampoo rinse over their hair. Neither one of them has long hair so I think this works well for us.
Co-Wash- I co-wash the kids hair once a week. I use Garnier Fructis Triple Nutrition Conditioner or Aussie Moist. I DO rub this fully onto their hair. I put it on Khari's hair then let her play while I do TK's head. Once I'm done rinsing out and reapplying/applying the Aussie Moist I rinse out TK's hair. I don't reapply conditioner to Taiden's hair as it is thicker and I don't want him going to bed with wet hair.
Leave-in- I just use Aussie Moist as a leave in for Khari and Taiden's hair right now. It keeps her curls nice and doesn't dry out her hair. I also use a little mixed with water to 'refresh' their hair in the morning or while styling. At the moment I don't use anything else for either of their hair.
Deep Condition- I don't deep condition either of their hair right now. Some might consider when I leave it in their hair for a few minutes in the bath just that, but I'd say it's sort of a mini deep condition as I don't use any special products.
TK- I just spray his hair with a conditioner/water mix then run my fingers through it. Sometimes I'll use a comb, but he doesn't like it so I usually just use my fingers. Occasionally I'll add a little conditioner.
Khari- I spritz it with her conditioner/water mix and run my fingers through to get out any tangles. If I'm leaving it down I'll just add some conditioner if needed and wahlah! If I'm styling it I'll again add some conditioner (depending on the 'style') and then style.